noun, verb, loved, lov·ing.


1.a profoundly tender, passionate affection for another person.

2.a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection

no where in the definition of love does it define a color, sex or race. love is love.

This is what love looks like to me...

pieces of me::


my unicorn

For the last few years I have asked for a unicorn for my birthday. I'm sure most of my friends think I am losing my mind and sincerely asking for a mythical creature that might not exist. What I am requesting is a mystical creature, but not the horned horse the common mind may think I am referring to...

According to urban

A Unicorn is used in reference to your dream person. Your perfect person. The person to whom you wish to be with intimately more than anyone else. Despite its rarity, everyone has a unicorn. But everyone’s unicorn is rare to them. This one person can sooth your soul and give you a sense of worth or completeness. Just the thought of this person can heal your innermost pain on the darkest of days. It’s the perfect person but an endless pursuit of this unicorn can only lead to disappointment.

The last statement is why I am not pursuing this person... I want him to be a gift :)


true boredom 101

ok when two people are bored. the most random things occur. ie the picture to your right. this is me and my friend dakota. it was valentine's day and we were trying to spread a little love. we were dateless. manless. and hungry. so we decided to create heart shapes with our body. yep. didn't go over too well. but it proves when two people are bored enough... ummmm well ummm. it didn't prove anything. but we're bored again. this time we took it to blogging. so here are the TOP 10 things to do when you're bored according to DAKOTA & JAY DRU....

1. have a drink
2. have another drink
3. tweet how bored you are
4. stop by the health clinic for a STD test
5. have another drink
6. fly a kite
7. watch teen mom reruns
8. talk to your bored friend about how bored you really are
9. blog
10. create mischief (prank call your ex, play hide&seek,hide your friends shoes..)

ok after you do all those things you'll probably still be bored but at least you had something to read lol.


a true boyfriend....

When i walk away from you mad
[ Follow me ]

When i get upset
[ Kiss me and tell me you love me ]

When im quiet
[ Ask me whats wrong ]

When i ignore you
[ Give me your attention ]

When i pull away
[ Pull me back ]

When you see me at my worst
[ Tell me i'm beautiful ]

When you see me start crying
[Just hold me and dont say a word ]

When you see me walking
[ Sneak up and hug my waist from behind ]

When im scared
[ Protect me ]

When i lay my head on your shoulder
[ Tilt my head up and kiss me ]

When i tease you
[ Tease me back and make me laugh ]

When i dont answer for a long time
[ reassure me that everything is okay ]

When i look at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]

When i say that i like you
[ I really do more than you could understand ]

When i grab at your hands
[ Hold mine and play with my fingers ]

When i tell you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]

When i look at you in your eyes
[ dont look away until i do ]

When i miss you
[ i'm hurting inside ]

When y
ou break my heart
[ the pain never really goes away ]

When i say its over
[ i still want you to be mine ]


- Stay on the phone with her even if shes not saying anything.

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go then kiss her

- When she says she's ok don't believe it talk with her

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

- Call her before you sleep and after you wake up

- Treat her like she's all that matters to you.

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick.

- Watch her favorite movie with her.

- Give her the world.

- Let her wear your clothes.

- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.

- Let her know she's important.

- Kiss her in the pouring rain.

- When she runs up at you crying, the first thing you say is;"Who's ass am I kicking babe?"


unlikely source

::sometimes i get my motivation to strive harder from unlikely sources. there are several people in this world that i appreciate and that inspire me. there are a few that probably don't even know. maybe i should tell them now.
-there's this brilliant girl that i met two years ago. her name is terri. she has been through alot and many people don't know this about her. she's fought battles that seem impossible. her strength makes me stronger.
-my bestfriend tenisha. she just listens. sometimes she doesn't say a word and doesn't come up with a solution for my problem but her listening ear is enough. she is a new mommie and i know she'll be the best.she's so much better than me lol.she motivates me bc i don't want to make her look bad. she's inspires me to never give up. when i'm ready to settle, she tells me she'll stop being my friend.
-ledisi, jill scott, melanie fiona,india arie, marymary...ok i don't actually know them but their music gets me through any day lol
-anyone HAPPILY married. key word is happily. makes me believe in fairy tales
-my god child ja'lynn.she's 7. she's been through more in her seven years of life then i've been through in my___yrs.(it won't let me type my age for some reason=) she makes me strive to be better for her.
-my present co-workers motivate me to get a new job everyday....
-the people who have wronged me.(should i mention names ummm nah) motivate me to prove to them that they didn't keep me down.
-all my exboyfriends. each and every one of you have made it clear what i don't want in a relationship...thanks for cheating on me,partying all night, being lazy, forgetting valentine's guys motivate me to find mr.right!
-barak obama....enuff said there.
-the sun... it let's me know today is a new day. the daylight motivates me to take full advantage of each day
-the homeless man on the corner...i don't want that to me or anyone i know. when i make it. we all make it (not sure where i'm making it to yet)
you never know when or if you are an inspiration to someone. keep smiling.keep loving. keep living.


the unexpected

The unexpected

When no one was looking I fell in love with you

When no one was looking I think you fell in love with me too

The world kept moving but still we stood

We would have stayed in that moment forever

If we could

Our eyes locked but our lips remained sealed

As we stood hate passed us but love stopped and our hearts were filled

I wish more time could have been spent

But she came and there you went

Yeah you belong to her and this is true

But when no one was looking I fell in love with you

-jay dru

(just something i thought up lol)